- She doesn't do anything good for HIM. I don't see how she impacted his life in a good way other then getting my mother to yell at him a lot for doing dumb shit like taking control of the car as if he were paying for it. He did Ecstasy while he was with her. She lets him make stupid ass decisions, like that. If it were up to me and that were my boyfriend, I wouldn't let him. I understand it's the whole thing of "oh lets let each other do things because we have our own free wills," but I'm not sure I would ever let that be put into play with drugs. You're not controlling someone if you're saying something for their own benefit.
-She has this whole 10 year old view on things, "I don't give a fuck about anything or anyone" outlook on life. That is not a mature way to see things. I think that, but only in uncontrollable situations. Grow up.
-She is what I call a trapper. She dared to be dumb enough to say, IN THE BEGINNING OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP, "I thought I could love you, fall in love with you," OH PLEASE. She gave it up too soon as well, taking whatever innocence my brother had left, trapping him even more, making him feel obligated to be with her.
My brother asks me if I can invite them to go do things with Adrian and I, so they can see what couples do and how they influence each other in good ways. Red flag? Is it? Because my BROTHER is asking me this, using those exact words. In all reality, he shouldn't have a girlfriend during his senior year, he needs to focus on what's going to get him into a better future, not some little girl who has only become an anchor on his life, holding him down. He doesn't need a girlfriend who is as insecure as her, or on the contrary as well, has as big of an ego.
She isn't cute anymore. And he needs to wake up and see what he really has in front of him.
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